Originally published on October 14, 2014. This post was last updated on April 11, 2025, for editorial improvements.

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This is the old-fashioned banana pudding your Grandma proudly served in her best Pyrex—super creamy vanilla custard, homemade from scratch (no boxed mix in this kitchen, thank you kindly). Around here, it shows up at every single holiday, potluck, funeral, or Tuesday that needs comfort, but it’s a non-negotiable at Easter and Christmas.
And if you’re in a rush? I see you. Here’s an easy banana pudding with sweetened condensed milk version with your name on it.
🧾 Ingredients
🔪 Instructions
This old-fashioned banana pudding recipe is really simple to make - there's no need to use a boxed mix!
Alright, —grab that apron and let’s make some magic. Start by mixing flour and sugar together in a big Pyrex bowl - I like to use a whisk for this. Now, slowly whisk in the evaporated milk until it’s smooth. Pop it in the microwave and zap it ‘til it thickens up, stopping to whisk every minute or so—no multitasking, keep an eye on it like it owes you money.
Now comes the part where we don’t scramble the eggs: add a bit of that hot goodness to the yolks while whisking like your life depends on it, then ease it all back into the milk mixture. Cook it till it’s thick and creamy (about 2 more minutes - don't let it boil). Remove from the microwave and stir in the butter and vanilla, and try not to lick the spoon (or do—I won’t judge). Now layer those vanilla wafers like you’re building something sacred, top with banana slices, and pour on that warm, creamy pudding like the Southern queen (king?) you are. Retro perfection in a bowl.
📖 Recipe
Old Fashioned Banana Pudding Recipe
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- 1 cup granulated sugar
- ⅓ cup flour
- 28 oz evaporated milk
- 4 egg yolks, room temperature and whisked smooth
- 1 ½ teaspoons vanilla extract
- 6 tablespoons butter, cut in chunks
- 4 bananas, sliced
- 12 ounces 'Nilla Wafers
- 2 tablespoons bourbon, optional
Instructions
- Mix together sugar and flour.
- Slowly add evaporated milk, whisking until well blended.
- Microwave on high for about nine minutes until the mixture thickens, whisking every 1-2 minutes.
- Remove from microwave. Add a little of the hot mixture to the egg yolks, whisking constantly.
- Add the yolks back into the pudding, whisking constantly to keep the eggs from curdling.
- Put back into the microwave and cook for 2 more minutes, whisking a couple of times.
- Remove from heat and add the butter. Whisk until it is mixed well.
- Stir in the vanilla (and bourbon if you're using it).
- Add a layer of 'Nilla Wafers to the bottom of your serving dish.
- Top with sliced banana.
- Add more pudding and repeat the layers, ending with the pudding.
- Sprinkle the top with cookie crumbs before serving.
Notes
- Cooking the rich vanilla egg custard in the microwave means that it doesn't scorch and is always creamy. You can cook it on top of the stove if you want but stir it constantly!
- Make this the day before you plan on serving it if you can. The cookies soak up all the flavor and it's just SO good.
- For the best result use ripe bananas but not so ripe they're turning into liquid or mushy. They should still be firm.
Nutrition Facts
Nutrition information is estimated as a courtesy. If using for medical purposes, please verify information using your own nutritional calculator. Percent Daily Values are based on a 2000 calorie diet.
This recipe has been tested several times. If you choose to use other ingredients, or change the technique in some way, the results may not be the same.
📖 Variations
Sometimes I whip the egg whites up into a stiff, sweetened meringue and then carefully fold it into the cooled custard right before putting it all together.
You end up with a lighter mouth feel with all the flavor and deliciousness of the pudding. Kinda like a mousse.
Try it that way once and if you don't like it just use the meringue as a topping next time instead of folding it in. Or, use the egg whites for something else.
- Some southern banana pudding recipes use chessmen cookies instead of the 'Nilla Wafers.
- This is the best banana pudding if you're looking for the classic recipe but try my Nutter Butter Banana Pudding if you're feeling adventurous.
- Sliced strawberries, peaches, or raspberries are a delicious change from bananas.
- Use graham crackers instead of the vanilla wafers.
💭 Tips
Expert Tip: An old-fashioned secret to making the best banana pudding recipe is evaporated milk. I have tried half and half, heavy cream, whole milk, and combinations of those ingredients and nothing makes a pudding creamier than evaporated milk. You can substitute 3 cups of milk if you want to - but I am telling you the evaporated milk works best.
- I don't recommend low-fat milk and I've never tried non-dairy milks.
- Dip bananas in a tiny bit of lemon juice to keep them from turning brown. If you don't like the sour lemon you can dip the slices in 7-Up!
- For the best result use ripe bananas but not so ripe they're turning into liquid or mushy. They should still be firm. Save the extra ripe ones for Hawaiian banana bread.
- You can save the egg whites and whip them until stiff peaks form to make meringue for the top or just save them for another use.
👩🍳 FAQs
Bananas will darken when exposed to air unless they've been dipped in lemon juice.
Usually, it's watery because the custard hasn't been allowed to thicken enough when cooking or too much liquid has been used. It may also be watery if it's been in the fridge a few days and the bananas have started to deteriorate.
That's up to you! Some people do serve it warm and some prefer it chilled. When chilled it tends to be thicker and when warm it tends to have a thinner texture.
📚 Related recipes
Who doesn't love bananas? Here are some of my favorite banana desserts!
- Southern Banana Pudding Cheesecake is a creamy New York cheesecake with big banana pudding flavor.
- Banana Cake with gooey walnut filling is covered in a whipped cream cheese frosting that's light and fluffy. Best banana layer cake recipe ever!
- Try this no bake banana pudding pie!
📞 The last word
Classic banana pudding is the ultimate comfort food!
It's one of those classic Southern recipes that finds its way to nearly every Texas table around just about any holiday.
As long as a glazed ham, some hot out of the oven rolls, and a creamy rich banana pudding are on the table it doesn't much matter what else fills it out.
Don't just make this for Christmas dinner.
Make it for that night when you changed a flat in the cold, found out you had the wrong size spare, and trudged three miles through sleet to get help.
Save this family favorite for a night when you want to watch a chick flick and cry. Save it for a night when the family is doing a 120000000 piece puzzle of Einstein's brain or playing Monopoly.
This easy banana pudding recipe is like your favorite sweats. Comfortable, warm, and cozy -not elegant or spectacular.
Kim says
Do you use this recipe for banana cream pie?
Marye says
I use this - https://www.restlesschipotle.com/banana-pudding-pie/
Michelle Higginbotham says
Going to be making this asap!! Can’t wait to try it.
Linda says
Love that you've shared this recipe. My mom made this every Christmas when I was growing up. It's super yummy. It really is so much better that the box stuff. Also, my mom would make a homemade pie crust, do the layers, ending with the pudding and simply top it with whipped cream. 😋 I'm looking forward to making this soon. I actually have bananas this go around😁 uhm, my only question that I have is; Do you know if this will freeze. I'll be the only one eating it.
Marye says
Aww thanks! I'm sorry - it does not freeze well at all.
Addison says
The evaporated milk, sugar, and flour mixture cause a huge mess in the microwave even with a cover 1/5 do not recommend.
Marye says
You need to have a large bowl so when it cooks it doesn't spill over. You need to watch it and stir down when necessary. AND you never ever cover it. Sorry it didn't work out for you.
Kim M. says
I have been looking for this recipe for awhile. This is the best banana pudding recipe I've ever had! I've made many varieties of banana pudding. This one is amazing! I always use the variation of folding meringue in with custard and use fresh whipped cream in layers. It's so good!
Marye says
Thanks Kim! So glad you like it!
Richard P says
Great, Great Banana Pudding, I live in Mississippi and we ALL love Banana Pudding. The evaporated milk does make a richer pudding ans the optional bourbon is the little something something that when your eating it your trying to figure out what it is (That is if your not the one who made it)
Marye says
Definitely!
Marye Audet says
I know! No control here either...
Patricia @ Grab a Plate says
Would it be too corny to say that I'm bananas over your banana pudding?! I'm now dying for this! I have some fabulous ginger cookies that would work well with this! I think tomorrow is the day 😉 Pinning - yum!
Marye Audet says
LOL! Ginger cookies would be amazing
Emily says
This looks amazing! I love bananas and I love bread pudding so I don't see how I could wrong with this recipe!
Marye Audet says
🙂
Allie says
Love homemade banana pudding Marye, this looks incredible!
Marye Audet says
Thank you Allie!
Michelle @ The Complete Savorist says
That's my childhood right there in that bowl. Great memories happy to have your recipe.
Marye Audet says
Thanks Michelle! I love it!
Jordan Anderson says
Banana pudding was pretty much a staple at every church potluck supper I went to in Arkansas, as well. And, we could always tell who'd been cooking from a box. 🙂
Marye Audet says
Yep! LOL!
Florian @ContentednessCooking says
Such a lovely breakfast idea!
Marye Audet says
🙂
Ashley @ Big Flavors from a Tiny Kitchen says
This looks SO delicious! Banana pudding is always a favorite!
Marye Audet says
Thanks Ashley!
Heather Kinnaird says
easily, one of my all time favorite dessert! and of course homemade is always best!!
Marye Audet says
Totally! I love this stuff!
Heather | girlichef says
I loooooove warm, homemade banana pudding. Like - too much. It kind of brings me to tears a little, it's so good. I'm totally digging those caramelized banana slices. I need some. Like, NOW.
Krystle (Baking Beauty) says
I heart banana pudding and vanilla wafers. This looks super yummy!
Linda Cleary says
I love this recipe! I rarely use the microwave, so I just cooked it stovetop like a regular pudding, low and slow! Thanks Marye!
Cyndi - My Kitchen Craze says
Never knew I could make my own banana pudding with out the help of a box. Totally need to make this for my kiddos. They would love it! Pinned!
Regina says
Yummy, My Grandmother used to make homemade Banana pudding AND Vanilla wafers…This brings back multiple memories:)